Money is not a personality and it is not a god. It is a relationship you are already in — with terms, repairs, silences, and lies. If you only speak to it when you need a rescue, you are not in a relationship. You are in an extraction. Electric Empress does not romance a ledger. She tells it the truth.
The inherited terms sound like family, church, a first boss, a marriage. 'We don't talk about it.' 'Wanting that much is ugly.' 'If I get it I will become them.' You do not have to prosecute the dead. You do have to stop running their contract as if it were physics.
A clean relationship has a cadence: look at the statements, name what arrived, name what left, direct the next move, repair when you lied. Repair is not a vision board. Repair is opening the account you have been avoiding and classifying what you find: operate, reserve, claim, leak.
You will know the relationship is adult when money can sit in the room without you performing poverty or performing splendor. It becomes a counterpart with a job. Counterparts can be loved. They cannot be used as proof that you are good, cursed, chosen, or doomed.